Everybody (Even myself) got a wrong perception from people from the first impression, and really don’t know what’s is involved in the back, feelings, humor or conscience.
When your feel everything goes wrong, the situations looks really bad, you may not the only one who has a bad day and when somebody is trying to pushing you to never give up, may be they experienced the same bad things and wants to help you, not criticizing you. Listen what they say, hear your internal voice, defined what you really want and never give up! faith for your dreams! and help others in the same situation.
But keep in mind that every person has its own history, the first impression never forgets some may say, but your couldn’t know or even understand for all the things crossing to reach happiness. Meet people, join conversations, listen carefully and dare to take the first step to change your life. Believe me, everybody has different capabilities, the trick is identify what are yours, improve them and inspires other to believe on their self. Even if the situation looks blurred, try it, this is the first step for amazing things comes true.
Tell your self Yes I can change for a better way, better situation, better solution or better person. Good Bye.